That's the gist of it. Some will even take things they don't like and make it a goal to get better at it despite it. But, I think it's better and easier to stick with something you do like for the time being.

[He doesn't want to push Nenonen away from fighting, but he does strongly believe that if you don't have the motivation for it, then you just don't have it- just fade into obscurity like the rest of the weaklings.]

I am willing to help you figure this out- but maybe fighting monsters isn't how you should start. You were rather entranced by my bow...we could start there.

[Shooting a bow is fun at least, and not all that scary like fighting something with rows of teeth for days that wants to eat you.]