I'm always rude. If I don't hold it back for the Dragon Girl and Noodle Boy, why do you think I would do it for you?

If you cannot see how much worse what you deliberately did to him than his failure to act, then that is on you.

If you have complaints on his actions, then that is something to address with him.

I'm offering to aid you in the chance to work it out. For my own selfish reasons, but you're the one who claims to care about my family. A century is plenty of chance to make persuasive arguments for an outcome you'd prefer.