I think you're comparing something you did when your relationship was still brand new with something he did after you'd been engaged for... how long, again?
It'd be different if these were memories he'd had back in Tokyo-F, but they aren't, are they. They're memories that slammed into his head after he woke up here, same as me. When you two were already engaged, already planning a life together.
[ Smallest pause, then, ]
I'm not saying you don't have a right to be hurt. I'm not saying you don't have a right to end things.
[ He is expressly not encouraging you to stay with Doc unless you decide you want to; not wanting to is all the reason you need, in his estimation, but then — what does he know about long-term relationships? ]
I'm just saying: if you're trying to compare your apples to his oranges, he had a lot more to lose when he came clean with you.
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I think you're comparing something you did when your relationship was still brand new with something he did after you'd been engaged for... how long, again?
It'd be different if these were memories he'd had back in Tokyo-F, but they aren't, are they. They're memories that slammed into his head after he woke up here, same as me. When you two were already engaged, already planning a life together.
[ Smallest pause, then, ]
I'm not saying you don't have a right to be hurt. I'm not saying you don't have a right to end things.
[ He is expressly not encouraging you to stay with Doc unless you decide you want to; not wanting to is all the reason you need, in his estimation, but then — what does he know about long-term relationships? ]
I'm just saying: if you're trying to compare your apples to his oranges, he had a lot more to lose when he came clean with you.