Yes. I had a perfect right to know before we got married that he might not be able to stay with me, so I could decide for myself if I was okay with it. He used his words fine a few minutes ago when he told me the truth, they would have been just as easy to say before we were married.

You don't think I was scared, telling him about all that? I still did it, because he deserved to know what he was getting into. I've never hid anything from him, never. And this is a huge thing to not tell me, and it's unfair that he didn't, I don't care how hard it was to say.