People sometimes have motivations beyond just killing. Maybe he wanted to make it clear that he's watching what I do, or that I should watch myself.

I'm not sending someone else to talk to him. If someone wants to to it with me, we can discuss it. [ This is the only thing she's been firm on, but there is one other matter she can't be talked down from right now: ]

More the point is that I wanted it to be clear that he can't know where we live, or about my testing, while we figure this out. [ At least she's saying "we". ] I don't want to find out too late that trusting him was a dumb idea.